Now we come to the Gospel reading, where the question of fasting appears directly. Someone asks Jesus: “Why do John’s disciples and the disciples of the Pharisees fast, but your disciples do not fast?” The nature of the question is not “Should we fast?” Instead, it was: “Why are your disciples not fasting like us? Jesus responds with the image of a wedding: “Can the wedding guests fast while the bridegroom is with them?” A wedding is normally a time of celebration. Therefore, fasting would not fit the occasion. He continues: “The days will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them, and then they will fast on that day.” Jesus does not say, ‘Fasting is unnecessary.’ Instead, he gives fasting a different context. There is a time for celebration and there is a time for fasting. And notice the connection between ‘taken away’ and fasting. When something precious is taken away, people mourn. So Jesus presents fasting not merely as a religious performance but as an expression of longing and loss, leading us to an important question: What is the reason for our fasting? In verses 21-22, Jesus gives two images: an unshrunk patch on an old garment and new wine in old wineskins. These sayings are often understood simply as old religion versus new religion. But Jesus does not simply say that everything old is useless. In fact, he has already said that his disciples will fast. The arrival of God’s kingdom changes the way people understand religious practices.And then Mark immediately moves to another controversy, this time concerning the Sabbath. Jesus says: “The Sabbath was made for humankind, and not humankind for the Sabbath.” This statement is crucial for understanding the whole passage. Jesus is not destroying the Sabbath. He is reminding his hearers of its purpose. The religious practice exists for human beings. Human beings do not exist merely to serve a religious system. Jesus is asking whether religious practices are serving their God-given purpose.
When we place these three readings together, a common theme begins to appear. Hannah speaks about the hungry and the poor, Jude speaks about those who doubt and those who are in danger, and Jesus speaks about fasting and the purpose of religious practice. The texts compel us to ask- What does our fasting mean? If I fast only as an outward religious practice, while remaining indifferent to the suffering around me, what has my fasting achieved? Jesus gives fasting its significance. And this becomes particularly relevant when we look at the world around us. We live in a world where millions continue to experience hunger and food insecurity. At the same time, many of us have regular access to food and can treat fasting as a voluntary religious discipline. The issue is not that having food is wrong. The issue is whether our abundance makes us forget those who do not have enough. Perhaps fasting should make us more sensitive to the person whose hunger is not voluntary. A Jewish Rabbi once said, “let our stomachs be empty and our hearts be heavy.” This is where I would bring back the title: “Fasting or Mourning?” Jesus says that when the bridegroom is taken away, then they will fast. While Mark speaks explicitly about fasting, Matthew’s parallel account uses the language of mourning. Matthew therefore helps us see the emotional and relational dimension behind the fasting Jesus speaks about. Fasting is, therefore, connected with absence. Something is missing; something has been taken away. When we look around us, every moment gives us a reason to mourn: the sound of gunfire, the bloodshed on our streets, the cries of war, and the hunger of those who have no food. Every day, the news reminds us that our brothers and sisters are suffering and losing their lives in great numbers. The text challenges us to ask whether our religious practices are making us more attentive to God’s purposes and more responsive to human suffering. Not mourning for the sake of sadness, but mourning that refuses to become comfortable with another person’s pain. Not fasting simply because Lent has arrived, but fasting because our hearts have learned to feel the absence of justice, compassion and life. Fasting or Mourning? ‘Mourning in Fasting’ perhaps should be the response of everyone who prays at this moment in time.